Why Men Refuse to MarryMay 19, 2008
Women always like to say that men are afraid of commitment. The truth is that men love commitment with the right woman. Often men are afraid of not finding anyone at all or someone worse, just like women, so they settle for someone they don’t really want, hence the fear. In reality there is almost no reason for men to get married anymore. The state and the federal government have so intruded into personal relationships that marriage has been made completely detrimental for men. Whether it’s alimony, child support, infrequent visitation, unfair domestic violence laws or what it’s a bad deal for men period. Here are just some of the reasons men should stay away from the altar:
1) Whenever there’s a domestic dispute police almost always believe the woman over the man. That means he’s going to jail and that will be on his record for life for all unlikely employers to see. She’s just ruined your ability to make a decent livelihood in one foul swoop.
2) Women get half or more of your assets during a split. We’ve all heard about this one and it’s still true. Unless you work out something more equitable between yourselves a court is going to award half or more of your assets to your soon to be ex-wife. Nice huh? It’s like what Chris Rock said: “When you leave a steak restaurant, they don’t owe you a steak!” I don’t care what women are accustomed to. That isn’t a law and it doesn’t make sense. Black women today make more money than black men thanks to the focus on black men as the boogeyman of everything wrong with society. Black women play right into white people’s hands too when they jump on board the black man boogeyman bandwagon and they do. They’re doing it right now all over this country.
3) Alimony. You thought getting half of your stuff was bad? Now she gets part of your paycheck for the rest of your life unless you had a lump sum to pay out and how many of us has that? Of course she spends this on herself instead of the kids 99.9% of time. You’re lucky if you didn’t have kids because the kids are the weapons of the state and the federal government against men and women use them too.
4) Child support. This is separate from alimony remember? More money out of your check every payday. Most men take care of their kids anyway so why does the state have to get involved in this? The ones who don’t pay are still not going to pay so if you lock them up how does that help? You cannot garnish wages from a man with no job and we all know losers are women’s favorite pet projects.
5) Lack of sex. It is common knowledge that married men rarely get sex once they have been married a few years. This the primary reason get married and women say that we are not fulfilling their emotional needs for intimacy. Well excuse us for working three jobs to pay for everything while saving a little for the kids’ college and still managing to maintain the yard and attend all your stupid social gatherings with all your friends that we hate are. It boils down to this. Women these days are selfish. They don’t know how to be women. They don’t know how to be mothers and they don’t know how to be wives. They cannot cook. They cannot clean. Their sex is self-centered and boring. All they want to do is spend our money at the mall.
6) Cheating. Desperate Housewives is not just a tv show. Married women cheat just as much or more than men. I’m not saying that men should cheat or that men haven’t cheated more in the past. I’m just saying this obviously doesn’t help. Cheating is more of a violation to men because we are more tied to the physical than women are. If you want to cheat it’s pretty simple. Get a divorce first so it’s not cheating!!!
7) Shopping Addiction. Women spend money like it’s going to run out tomorrow (and it might!). Women make 85% of the consumer purchases in this country. Yes that’s a true statistic. That means while you’re at work and she’s home doing nothing except screwing the gardener from Spain, you can expect to pay for everything that she’s using to make herself attractive to other men. Women are not only shoppaholics, they are addicted to celebrityhood. They all want to be popular so everyone knows who they are even though they haven’t done anything of note in their lives. It’s the Paris Hilton syndrome. They want to be famous for the sake of fame. Of course Paris is famous for being a slut but at least she gets to sleep around at her dad’s hotels for free.
8) Emasculation. Women love to make men feel like they are not men. They get joy out of it. They know that the law is on their side and if you touch them you’re going to jail for a year and will probably lose your job and have a hard time finding another. It’s fine if they touch you though since they are the physically weaker sex. They can damn near kill you and you get a bandaid and sent out of your own home. Guess who’s she going to call as soon as you’re out of sight and the cops have left. Women are so hooked on consumerism that they will actually tell you that you are less than a man because you cannot buy them more stuff. Huh? What does one have to do with the other? American women do not know what a real man is and they never will.
9) Bad boy syndrome. Women are hooked on men that are bad for men. They say they aren’t because that’s what they’re supposed to say but this is really the only men that want to fuck: the ones they cannot control, the ones that completely disrespect them and threaten them, the ones that tell them who their friends can and cannot be. Once they get around to figuring out that they cannot change this guy into the domesticated loser that they can drain the life out of they turn to the nice guy after it’s too late. Women love the nice guy once they’ve been used up and had twelve kids with the bad guy who doesn’t pay child support. Who wants to inherit someone else’s kids. Not me and I think I speak for most men on that. Women will even work several jobs to support the bad boy and his drug habit. They bring it home and he spends it after of course screwing some stripper while she was at work stripping.
10) Bisexual and bicurious. This is really part of the emasculation. Women like to pretend to be gay these days. It’s chic. They claim that women satisfy the emotional needs better than men. Well maybe if women would satisfy any needs at all of men they might get something in return. Women are being played for fools by this society and they are falling for it hook, line and sinker. They are being told to be as much like men as possible and men are becoming more and more like women. That will lead to lower and lower birthrates and higher and higher spending for corporate profits since people are living alone making individual consumer choices. This is not accident but when I mention this to women they basically say they don’t care and that they’re going to the mall.
11) Lack of domestic skills. Women can’t do anything around the house anymore. It’s not that women should do all the housework but they sure as hell should do some. Women these days are pigs and just downright nasty many times. Many of them can’t boil water or even use a vacuum. Have you seen the inside of their cars? if they have one that is. They’re always filthy. Clothes are always all over the floor. Hair is always in the bathroom sink and tub. Dishes are piled up in the kitchen sink. If men work all day and you are a stay at home mom then they call you a housewife for a reason.
12) Constant complaining. Women are never happy. They watch so much tv that they can never decide what they really want. They have so many choices that there is no way they will ever make the right one. This is a product of consumerism. One in ten women is on anti-depressants which serves them right after all the depression they cause other people. This world is designed to keep people buying false happiness. Women are a true testament to the fact that it is indeed false.
13) Child visitation. Even if the man has no money why should he not be entitled to see his kids every week? It’s his sperm for crying out loud. An egg is useless without it. If men carried the child to term would men use that reason to keep women out of the child’s life? I doubt it. This is uniquely a female thing. Women are unable to control their hormones these days and it’s no wonder with all the shit that we put into food. What happens every single time is that not having the father around ruins the child’s development and they grow up being a bigger asshole to someone else than the mother or father ever were to each other. Nice job parents.
I could go on but what would be the point? Men get married for sex. Women get married for money. Sounds like guys just need a prostitute and women need a John or a sugar daddy.